September Chit Chat

Not loosing time too

Self destructive behavior
With no explanation
Can kill

You can't charge the plant for getting dead
If you didn't give her water
She was craving for water
Not the opposite

Ocean xxx wrote:

it's me wrote:

What I think is
Not at the same place

Maybe you are wrong. Some people hide their feelings as a defense mechanism out of fear. Especially if you have previously hurt them. Or they take longer to heal & trust again.
Or maybe he is confused by your actions & thinks the same about you?  
Rely on intuituon deep inside you & you'll sense the truth.

Poetry is a creative way for expressionism.

No one has the right to claim himself confused
After years of healing

YEARS

With such time the other one can be already dead at the time you reach your healing !

No
No way
All excuses

 

Get it off your chest. Communicate your issues to him subtly in your poems/ prose...
Let him trust you because maybe he's afraid, especially if you've hurt him.
Then maybe soon he'll understand.. Start again & forget past issues.

Ah

Was me to hurt him?

Not sure.
You alone know the details. Maybe he thinks you did.
Did you procrastinate too long?

Give him an ultimatum.

Or have you left him already, "not losing time too" you wrote above?
If you have, would you still be thinking about him? No.

He is pushing me away

For all you know he may be suffering even more.
Tell him what you want, even in a cryptic way...

Otherwise you'll destroy something that may potentially have been so loving & you'll both harbour unfulfilled feelings for the rest of your lives.
You see the matter your way with your reasoning. What about his version? Did you leave him? Hmmm?

There was intense understanding, but something went wrong?

Yes
He literally
Doesn't explain
Nothing

Nothing

Only painting future happiness
In ages

Manipulating me

You both may have your wires crossed, but really love each other. Just need to accelerate speed & connect.

He may be afraid, so that's why he's hesitant.
All kinds of possibilities. I'm just guessing as I don't know the facts.

Unless he's sadistic & playing games for amusement?
I doubt that. You would have sensed it. And who would bother wasting time?
You don't sound naive.

Put the pressure on him. Or he'll lose you.
It's now or never.

I know

It's a matter of keys

Each one of us has a key only

And I have not the happy ending one

Maybe not yet...your key that opens a happy ending.
Soon.
Believe & have hope.
Communicate.
Visualise your life together & meet each other's needs.
Make changes to adapt.

No more timeouts.  

Communicate - Yes



 when?

Ti risparmio i commenti su 'soon'

 

You're angry?

Balance, trust, love, understanding & communication are all part of the formula for the key to happiness.

Oh la vache!

No idea what this chit chat is about but I'm going to take the liberty to share my thoughts anyway

Not feeling poetic. Even Virginia Woolf had a man she wrote about, missed.

Maybe, in general, it´s better to stay in the relationships you are...

And not do like I have done.

At the edge of abyss I decided to take the famous bold step forward.

I did and here I am.

Live report, Saturday morning, from the bottom of the shaft:

Nothing. Absolutely nothing.

They say don´t look back, look ahead. So?
How next Friday is going to be different from yesterday.
Gee, I know.
It´s triple witching. Possibly some nasty waves next week.
At the end of the week I see myself sitting at home.
Alone.
Again.
Just my 0.02 swiss francs.
That´s all folks, time to end this live report before I bore you to death...

Dunno if I understood

You alone too?

You said:
Maybe, in general, it´s better to stay in the relationships you are... And not do like I have done


What?  what does it mean?

Dear it's me, I am suffering with you as I have almost the same problems with a man since years.

While I was loving him with all of my heart to him I was just an option.

Probably you should refuse to love and offer him your friendship instead, that's what I did and it works...somehow...


Somehow, because I still love him, this monkey love just doesn't go away!!

Monkey? Lol
As stupid?

William Somerset Maugham

The love that lasts the longest is the love that is 

never returned.

Returned as shared?

Joanna wrote:William Somerset Maugham

The love that lasts the longest is the love that is 

never returned.

Generalisation.
And one man's bitter or cynical response.
=====================

There is also mutual eternal love.
The love that poets, musicians & writers have been expressing for centuries.

Sigh....

Is it just me, or does this read like a private conversation between three people? I don't have a clue what you're all talking about, so maybe take it to PMs?

Ok
Thanks, ciao

Or start a lovelorn thread?

Yay, it's POETS day at last! [=Piss Off Early, Tomorrow's Sunday]

If you work a Monday to Friday week, you can say Piss Off Early, Tomorrow's Saturday.

And I'm outta here! Have a lovely weekend wherever you are and whatever you're doing!

melbert wrote:Or start a lovelorn thread?

Lovelorn? Hugh

Well
We will see

Lovelorn?

I´m not sure what it means. Either he is a blessing or a lesson.

One thing is for sure you can´t just un-meet someone. But you can move on.

I´m alone, yes.

Staying positive. Good things will happen.

Something over on the Music thread 'cos boys hurt too remember......x

 

Ok, I listened to the song.

I understand. But do you understand this:
After break up he says "if there has to be Mr. New I want to be him."
Just one episode: he calls from his Stanford office from the other side of the world. She says she is packing and just about to leave for the ski resort with her friends, there is this event. For how long he asks? Thursday to Sunday she tells him.
What´s the place to be in there? Watch for avalanche, have fun". He says.

Next day in apres ski she sits in a table with friends and some men have joined them. All nonsense, but good time.
All of a sudden her friends stop talking, they stare at the entrance, she turns and looks too. He walks in. Pulls a chair out of nowhere and sits on a table. I could have a beer now, he says. Guys at the table are asking where this guy came from? Any of you know him? And he says, I come from America. And I think this one lady here knows me.

He chatted with the guys, we even ate something there and at the end of the night went out, just the two of us
to do
snow angels and watch stars.

It didn´t change anything. But in a way it did. So after that I´ve been in many places and when ever a guy or guys come up and ask what we would like to have, my friends are all excited, thinking what they´ll have. I´m not. Nothing. I´m not impressed. Sorry.

So I am alone. Better this way I guess.

Carla97 wrote:Lovelorn?
I´m not sure what it means. Either he is a blessing or a lesson.
One thing is for sure you can´t just un-meet someone. But you can move on.
I´m alone, yes.
Staying positive. Good things will happen.

http://thesaurus.com/browse/lovelorn


Synonyms for lovelorn

bereft
crossed in love
dejected  
forsaken
jilted  
loveless
lovesick  
rejected
spurned

Just thinking that since a couple people seem to want to share their aloneness, a new thread should be started so that others can continue on with September Chit Chat.

Thanks for your contribution

Grazie

Thank you melbert! I was confuzzled and a bit fahoodled what it meant
now I know.

George is obviously saying.....

"THOSE COH GIRLS ARE REALLY HOT YA KNOW !" >>>>>>>>

caliente!

   

Problems, problems, problems all I seem to attract these days...

What is the best product to cover a bruise in the face? I need some tips fast! Corner of my other eye is swollen and purple& pink. I do not own any make-up for the purpose.

Option expiration week, busy as h**l and now this. Horse had some sort of accident yesterday and hurt her eye on a pasture, pretty bad looking. Vet came and cleaned it and used clue instead of stitches. It would be less itchy and she would not rub her head, hopefully. Difficult part: water is the best cure, so 3-4 times a day 5-10 minutes I have to put cold running water to her eye. And medicine. Alright.

I have done it now twice, I can tell you it´s not easy. Last night water was everywhere but not on her eye. I didn´t know she is so flexible, waving those front hoofs and head like maniac and remaining standing still. I tried to stay calm, it´s only water. She thought it was ritual slaughtering or something. Hit her head to mine, close that we didn´t have two eye accidents for the same day. But I have this bruise now, looking like a victim of domestic violence. Damn.  

 

What, you have no make up. Oh boy you should. It is always nice to paint yourself pretty hahahaha

I have to wear make up all the time due to my job as well. Can't even imagine anymore to leave the house without make up. LOL

Well, I would try make up from MAC they have great colors and they COVER everything very well. It is maybe a bit more pricy then the cheap once in the drugstore but better quality and worth it. (You can buy MAC in Douglas for example if you are in Europe). It really covers but be careful. MAC covers so well if you put too much on your face it looks like a mask.

http://www.maccosmetics.com/index.tmpl

Or if you like something natural for your face for a everyday basis and not so thick on your face try Jane Iredale Make up. It is amazing and better for your skin. But even more pricy and not so easy to get like MAC make up. Can only get it at some beautician or online. I love that one as it stays at my face from morning to evening even though I have oily skin and doesn't blog pores.

https://janeiredale.com/us/en.htm.

But to cover bruises...maybe MAC will be better

Hope that helps. Only my opinion of course

Thank you Nicky! I´ll try to find MAC or Joe Blasco dermaceal as a guy at the office suggested. He looked at it and said it´s going to last about 3 weeks, this bruise! I can´t believe this.

Of course I have some make-up about 300 hundred items but no foundation or what they are called... just doesn´t look good on me to cover the skin. I had a professional make up done once and I looked like prostitute, when I stepped out of the "beauty" salon, traffic literally stopped.

Carla tinted moisturiser is really good, nice and light, doesn't feel as heavy as foundation. I switched to maybellines mineral powder, my skin has never looked so good. Any red bits are gone and it doesn't look like you have slathered your face in goop.

Also my team in the AFL Australian Football League is in the semi finals tomorrow night. We have been leading all year and would be a damn shame to lose now. For any if you who watch it, we are playing Geelong boo hiss. So anyway have all the party food ready, hot dogs party pies, popcorn ready. My daughter and I have painted our nails brown and gold to support the team. My son who is footy mad cant wait to watch the game.

School holidays start tomorrow too thereby beginning 2 weeks of insanity. Ok I'm done night night x

Arrrrrrr, me beauties!  Today is International Talk Like a Pirate Day!  Yes, the one holiday we all eagerly await is finally here!
Avast!  Ahoy!  Shiver me timbers!   ( a bit much, I know)

I found out this little tidbit of information when I made reservations for dinner at a local hot spot.  When I asked if anything special was going on, the girl listed the band that was playing, the dinner deals and 'oh, we're celebrating 'Internat'l Talk LIke a Pirate Day'!  I thought it was just a promo by the restaurant.  Oh noooOOOOOooooo!  It's an actual recognized internet launched holiday!  So I just HAD to make sure my mates knew this, too, lest ye get caught with yer pantaloons down around yer ankles!  

Where do pirates go on vacation?
AAAAARRRRRRRgentina!

Why did the NBA recruit the pirate?
He had an awesome hook shot!

Did you hear about the pirate who went on the South Beach Diet?
He was trying to lower his cAAARRRRRRbs!

So tighten your bung hole and look your mate in the eye and invite 'im to drop his anchor in yer lagoon!   Aaaarrrrrrrr!

Definitely feeling a whole lot better then, Lakin?

My my whatever you Aaaaaarrrrrrrr on today Lakin pass some over pronto !!

And......
There's nothing loose about MY bung hole that needs tightening up, thank you very much.
Tut tut.....the very idea.
I'm English don't ya know ?

 

Here's another for your I T L A P day dinner party Lakin.....


What do pirates and pimps have in common?
They both say "YO HO!" and walk with a limp!

 

Avast there you scurvy dog us English do be t'best pirates on t'sea!

LOLOL! I knew there be some bilge rat blood among us! Yes, PAN, ye olde Lakin's Roger is feeling mighty Jolly this day, in a manner of speakin'!

You guys crack me up! Joanna - I'm fine not knowing the state of yer bung hole, thank you! LOLOLOL! You guys make my day!

Lakin460 wrote:Arrrrrrr, me beauties!  Today is International Talk Like a Pirate Day!  Yes, the one holiday we all eagerly await is finally here!
Avast!  Ahoy!  Shiver me timbers!   ( a bit much, I know)

I found out this little tidbit of information when I made reservations for dinner at a local hot spot.  When I asked if anything special was going on, the girl listed the band that was playing, the dinner deals and 'oh, we're celebrating 'Internat'l Talk LIke a Pirate Day'!  I thought it was just a promo by the restaurant.  Oh noooOOOOOooooo!  It's an actual recognized internet launched holiday!  So I just HAD to make sure my mates knew this, too, lest ye get caught with yer pantaloons down around yer ankles!  

Where do pirates go on vacation?
AAAAARRRRRRRgentina!

Why did the NBA recruit the pirate?
He had an awesome hook shot!

Did you hear about the pirate who went on the South Beach Diet?
He was trying to lower his cAAARRRRRRbs!

So tighten your bung hole and look your mate in the eye and invite 'im to drop his anchor in yer lagoon!   Aaaarrrrrrrr!

I didn´t know this. I should have been looking for pirate patch not make up then.